"Acceptance": 25 x 40 x 35 cm ; Plaster, gesso, shellac ; edition of 8 >>>>>>>>>> My interest in exploring this theme stems primarily from my overall interest in how emotions and other states of mind can be expressed in abstract forms. Recent life events did force the issue on me rather, giving me the opportunity to contemplate both Acceptance and Patience.
The process of acceptance is indeed a fascinating thing, something we are constantly faced with in life and, if achieved, seems to me to be the key to inner calm/harmony, which in turn is the key to a fulfilling inner life.
As the Celtic verse says:
… the serenity to accept the things you cannot change,
The courage to face the things you can,
And the wisdom and grace to know the difference.
Accepting things you cannot change: requires in the first instance the acknowledgment that you are faced with a situation that you can’t change. Once you come to realize that, you have a choice between negativity, i.e. defeat, submission, and/or absolute, negative resignation, or positivity, which to me is vital in the process of acceptance and which is what makes it acceptance as opposed to the aforesaid negatives. This positivity takes the form of finding a way of ‘making the most of’, even turning ‘to your advantage’; a seeing a way of coming out better for it. Which, interestingly, means that you are actually to some extent turning this into a ‘thing you can change’.
So the different phases one moves through in this process of acceptance can be outlined as follows: initial resistance – how ever strong – even rejection/repulsion some times, and possibly/probably inner turmoil, then a quiescence in the maelstrom, the realization that this is a thing you cannot change, which leads to the serene state of acceptance: a taking or receiving willingly, sometimes with a degree of resignation (which I feel needs to remain positive, otherwise acceptance turns into merely tolerance), a calmness and composure, a constancy, serenity.
Now how do you express that in abstract sculpture? Convex, i.e. volume, bulging, if too strong, expresses rejection/resistance. A concave too deep gives the feeling of submission, which is negative; there has to be positivity for there to be true acceptance. Concave, if weighted appropriately – and just a few millimetres can make all the difference – expresses containment, not forced, just gentle.